Women, Scripts and Conditioning

Tara Emmers-Sommer

doi:10.2478/genst-2023-0009

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Women, Scripts and Conditioning

Gender Studies

Volume 21 (2022): Issue 1 (December 2022)

By: Tara Emmers-Sommer

Open Access

|Dec 2022

Abstract

Despite educational and employment advancements, research indicates that traditional and sexual scripts are nevertheless often considered and adhered to as related to gendered conditioning. This manuscript reviews the traditional sexual script and sexual script theory, provides application illustrations of the theories and discusses the implications of such conditioning, particularly for women.

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